Elopement at Treetop Escape, Devon

Why did you choose to elope?

'Following our engagement, we tried to organise our wedding twice,' explains Becky. 'I personally found the experience stressful, and the wedding went on the back-burner when we relocated and settled into our new life in Gloucester. The three years that followed were probably the most challenging of our relationship, but we got through it and, as our 15-year anniversary approached, we began to think about getting married again. The previous three years had proved that, despite the challenges, our relationship was stronger than ever.'

What was it about getting married at Tree Top Escape that appealed to you?

'We didn't want to borrow money or the fuss of a 'normal wedding' but we didn't want to scrimp on any of the magic either. The most important thing for us was that we were together as a family. While looking for ideas, I was blown away by pictures of Tree Top Escape. As we wouldn't have a honeymoon, the fact that we could have a weekend of luxury with our wedding in the middle massively appealed. I love the colour of the trees in autumn so, having decided that we wanted our tree house wedding, we were keen to do it when the trees were displaying their vibrant autumnal colours. We decided that it would be just the four of us and that we would keep it a secret, even from our sons. We picked them up at lunchtime from school and surprised them in the car on the way to Devon!'

How did the day pan out?

'We started the day with a large champagne breakfast and then I enjoyed having my hair and make-up done. After the ceremony, we relaxed in the small hut, playing games with the boys, eating sweets and drinking champagne before heading to the woods for photos. We then had an hour to wind down before our meal. With full bellies, we wallowed in the hot tub and watched 'The Greatest Showman'! It was just the best day. It was all very relaxing but fun and we loved every minute.'

Does one particular moment stand out to you?

'The whole day was so magical, but because we were away all weekend it felt like we were celebrating all weekend too! On the Sunday, after a stroll of the grounds and a roast at the local pub we headed to Saunton Sands. We spent the afternoon running up and down the sand dunes, then headed back via the bowling alley. We had great fun.'

What advice would you give to other couples considering an elopement?

'Just do it! We were nervous about telling our families and friends but they couldn't have been happier for us. Many said that if they could do it again they would do it the way we did! It was just so special being able to spend the whole day together as a family and Tree Top Escape allowed us to do that in luxury.'